Why are relationships so hard?
We have two people, a man and a woman, who have feelings for each other. While they are on cloud nine, life is good. For a while. The closer they get, the easier it is to misunderstand each other.
It’s probably true that no two people always see eye to eye. Open communication means times of laughter and joy, but also times of honesty and accountability. These are times of growth and challenge.
I’ve been thinking recently that our culture does not make it easy for relationships to thrive. Here are some reasons:
* we have a skewed view of sex
* we have this idea that the ideal partner will just present herself, and it will be love at first sight, and the green grass will grow all around
* we believe this lover of our dreams will finally make us happy and meet all our needs
* people preparing for marriage face the financial Everest of their wedding day. With typical celebrations running into tens of thousands of dollars
* good communication skills do not come hard wired in our DNA. More often than not, god communication is a learned skill. If healthy communication has not been a feature of our parents, we’re already starting behind the eight ball
This is why my next teaching series is focussing on the things in our culture which make doing relationship harder than it needs to be.
My first instalment focuses on how our culture’s view of sex does not lead to freedom, but generally to significant complications with how we do relationship. You have to wonder: if our kids modelled their relationships on Hollywood, what sort of families we will have.
So, we’re focussing on these things in an effort to uncover what Scripture teachers. We want to hear God’s word and live God’s life. The prayer is that we ourselves, and the coming generation, will have healthier relationships and be better equipped to bring Jesus’ new life to expression.
Following each Sunday, each sermon will be published at Sermon & Study