Before we get to the best things to talk about to help people see who Jesus is, I’d like to explore the hesitation many feel about doing that.
It is no secret that many people find it hard to share the good news about Jesus. Here are some of the reasons I hear from time to time…
They imagine people are not interested. Generally speaking however, this is not true. People are quite tolerant, and open to talking about spiritual things. If you’ve already built a bit of a relationship with them, you’ll be able to talk about a lot of things, including your faith. It’s just not true that people don’t want to listen. What they don’t appreciate is an overbearing or judgmental attitude. Come to think of it, God doesn’t want that, either!
They think they need to know all the answers. It’s good to know some key responses to the common questions people ask. There are some great resources here: Understand, though, that most of the time you will not be able to explain everything. This is OK. Sometimes we just have to admit that we’re not really sure, and that we’re hoping to understand more sometime in the future. Here’s a few additional suggestions:
Ask them to explore the question with you: work on the answers together. This helps people see that you’re really not interested in cliched answers. It also helps them see that Christians are people who are prepared to apply their mind and their intellect to the troubling questions of life
Remember to take people back to the core issue of Jesus. If, for example, you are dealing with the question of why evil exists in a world governed by a good God, It’s fine to say something like ‘I have also wrestled with the question of the presence of evil in the world. I know Jesus came to break to domination of evil in people’s hearts. His promise is to bring it to right somehow, and sometimes that will involve us being prepared to engage in the fight against evil. But for me the big deal today is that I can trust God to do the right thing by me, and I can trust him to work the right things through me as I seek to follow him.’
A third reason people are hesitant to share about Jesus is because they are uncertain about the level of their own Bible knowledge. Having a good working bible knowledge is a great thing, but it will never be enough, really. There will always be things we don’t fully understand. So, just say so. People are more impressed with someone who says ‘I’m not sure’ than someone who has an answer for everything. People just want to engage at the level of the heart, at what matters to you, and why Jesus still matters to you. Sure, sometimes you will get to talk with a person who knows a bit about the Bible, and they may have some questions, but from my experience, these instances are pretty rare. Discussions that turn into arguments about Bible texts are rarely productive.
People are more impressed with someone who says ‘I’m not sure’ than someone who has an answer for everything.
Remember: you have the good news! You know who Jesus is! You have a hope that does not disappoint! That is an incredibly positive standpoint, and even though you think your life might be pretty ordinary, when you start talking about why Jesus makes a difference to you, most people will be interested enough to listen. More about this in my next post.
Q: what is your biggest fear or uncertainty about telling people the good news of Jesus? Or, what have you found helpful in addressing your hesitation?
Feel free to leave your answer as a comment…o
Grace and peace: Dave
A few times I’ve meet people who have been incredibly hurt by the church or by people who have professed to be Christians, and they have thrown up an almost impassable barrier to the Gospel because of it. I’ve found it really difficult to talk about God’s grace in Jesus Christ when their personal experience of Jesus has been marred by one of his followers. Although talking about the fact that followers of Jesus don’t always reflect Jesus very well, I’ve still found such situations very difficult. When sharing the Gospel, along with authenticity we need to also practice humility.
I look forward to the rest of your blogs on this subject. God bless. Josh
I think a lot of people struggle with this one. Unfortunately, it’s a common objection. I may write on this sometime soon.